This is the honesty many need to hear, but don’t want to acknowledge. He’s letting certain men know why he — and others — can easily take their women.
— Alabama, USA
Entrepreneur and style expert Derrick Jaxn thought to share some information for the brothers.
While not all women are saints, there seems to be a shortage of good men as well. So, Derrick wants to put a little thought into your conscious mind.
Men, love your women wholly.
How Hard Are You Making It?
“I want y’all to think about this, honestly,” Derrick starts. “How hard are you making it for another man to come and love your woman better than you?”
According to Derrick, he’s not going to make it easy for his woman to find another man who will do anything the way he did it.
He notes that, while many women subscribe to “what he won’t do, another man will,” it’s his duty to ensure — if a woman does leave him — she won’t be satisfied with the next man’s way of doing things.
“I’m not talking about the bedroom. I’m talking about in the way that I care for her, the things I ask her…[when] I check up on her to see how her day was…to see how she’s doing, mentally…emotionally.”
Derrick wants men to know that, regardless of how loyal their women are, they should never let up or feel like no one could ever take their place if they slack off.
“There are millions of men out there,” he emphasizes.
And, several of them would give you a run for your woman, if given the chance.
Here’s What You Don’t Do
So, it’s your job to make it hard for them. Don’t give your woman a reason to look the other way.
Don’t give your woman an open door to find comfort in another man’s attention.
“What I suggest is, while you have the chance now, put your woman on such a high pedestal that no other man could reach her.”
“Attention” is the word of the day, basically. As aforementioned, she shouldn’t feel like she’s not getting enough of it at home. That also goes for “affection” and “intimacy.”
“Look, all of this s**t can sound like I’m advocating for perfection, but I’m not. [But] don’t ever leave your woman out here longing and feeling dissatisfied.”
If you’re interested in Derrick’s full advisory video [hint, hint], you can watch it below.
Disclaimer: The following video contains some adult language. Viewer discretion is advised.
All in all, what are your thoughts about the advice? Do you feel like you’re straight and have nothing to worry about? Or could you take his advice? Feel free to comment in the section below.
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